Dating Vietnam Girls

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Vietnam girls are extremely conservative, rude, and picky. They are among the worst women in the world – almost as bad as western women. 

When I first arrived in Hanoi I was shocked at the number of caucasian people around. In the old quarter part of the city, it seemed as if there were almost as many caucasian people as they were Vietnamese. This was a huge contrast to the Philippines where sometimes I would be the only caucasian person in the town. Even in Manila, the biggest city in the Philippines, I would rarely see another caucasian person.

I was very disappointed to see this many foreign men as I knew it means that competition levels were high and the women would be pickier. The women here could afford to be picky as they had many options to choose from. In addition, it means their bitch shields are much higher because many horny foreign guys have already tried to have sex with them. When you combine this extremely conservative culture you have a recipe for disaster.

I found most Vietnam girls to be extremely rude and uptight. As soon as I told them that I am only here for a month they would automatically assume that I am a sex tourist backpacker. In other words guilty until proven innocent.

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Vietnam Girls Are Conservative

If you come here looking for fun or one-night stands you’ll be very disappointed. Although there are some girls who are up for it, it will prove to be very difficult and frustrating. Even a kiss on the second date is too fast for these girls! Vietnam girls date at a snail’s pace and it will really test your patience.

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The only reason you would come to Vietnam is to find a girl for a long-term relationship that will lead to marriage. Even so, you will find it very frustrating having to sift through a lot of rude girls with high bitch shields. These girls are very calculating and highly suspicious of your motives. Throughout my world travel, I found Vietnam girls to be some of the rudest and most frustrating women I have ever met. The only second to this would be Colombian women who are also known to be quite conservative with high bitch shields. Again this is due to the hordes of foreign guys that have descended upon Colombia, especially in places like Medellín.

Unlike Philippine women, Vietnam girls will rarely reply to your messages online. I would estimate about 10% of Vietnam girls will reply to a message. Surprisingly this is actually about the same odds as a western woman replying to a message. Furthermore, Vietnam girls will never initiate messages. Again this is a huge contrast to Philippine women, who are known to flood your inbox with many messages.

Vietnam girls are very hesitant to meet up with you until you have been chatting with them online for some time. I had a number of occasions where I’ve asked a Vietnam girl if she would like to meet. Her response is usually “I don’t think so because I don’t know yet.” In contrast, Philippine women are very keen to meet. They will often ask “I want to meet you! when can we meet?” in the first conversation.

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Like Aussie women, Vietnam girls are very quick on the block button. They will block you for any reason at all. Most of the time you won’t even know why. Maybe they assumed you’re a sex tourist. Or maybe they simply thought you aren’t entertaining enough. Or maybe a better offer came along due to thousands of foreign guys here. In contrast, it is almost impossible to get a Philippine woman to block you. You can throw the most perverted things at them and the worst they’ll do is not respond for a while. The following day they magically forget about it and send you a message as if nothing ever happened!

Vietnam Girls Are Rude And Insulting

Vietnam girls are often downright insulting. I’ve been randomly told I’m “ugly” during mid-conversation or after asking a question. They will almost never compliment you on your appearance unless you happen to be Brad Pitt. These girls see thousands of caucasian guys pass through their city so you are nothing special to them. Meanwhile, Philippine women will constantly compliment you and tell you that you’re handsome.

Here are some examples of their plain rudeness:

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In the last conversation (above) it should be noted that this was a test to see how they react and how open they are. You can often tell a lot about a woman by the way she reacts and responds. I am quite aware that mentioning sex in the first message is a bad idea (unless you’re talking to a Philippine woman in Manila). However, compare this rude response to the polite one from a Philippine woman. If a Vietam girl is so triggered/angered by such a polite proposal, can you imagine what else she would be triggered/angered by? See where I’m going with this? 

Vietam Girls Are Beautiful And Intelligent

The only positives of Vietnamese girls are that they are probably among the most attractive Asians, and are generally well educated and intelligent. Vietnamese women do dress rather well and look after themselves. Most of them also have great teeth, unlike a lot of Philippine women. However, I have noticed more Vietnam girl with tattoos, another sign of being corrupted from western culture.

Online dating sucks in Vietnam and is just as difficult as in the west. There are simply way too many foreign guys here so competition is high. However, if you still want to give it a go the best option is the site Vietnamese Cupid. Here you will find much less competition than tinder. Use this link to sign up! I highly recommend paying for the platinum option. 

Another good way to meet young college women in Vietnam is to simply sit in a park late afternoon. Within an hour you’re likely to get approached by a student who is keen to practice her English with a foreigner. This is the only time you’ll ever be approached by women in Vietnam. One of the best hotspots for this is Hoan Kiem Lake in Hanoi. I had several English students approach me here one afternoon, including a cute 19-year-old. We ended up talking for 2 hours and walked around the lake. Sadly nothing came of it as she was extremely conservative and not very open-minded.

Vietnam Girls – Conclusion

In summary, do not waste your time with Vietnam girls. They will frustrate the hell out of you with their rudeness, high bitch shields, and extremely conservative nature. Many other men agree that Vietnam is finished. From what I hear Vietnam used to be a great place for foreign women, but that day is long gone. You can thank the hordes of western guys for that.

Attractiveness: 7/10

Friendliness: 1/10

Affectionate: 1/10

Intelligence: 7/10

Ease of sex: 2/10

Gold digging level: medium

Competition level: extremely high

Overall: 3.6/1